How To Know If If It's True Love

 True Love 

Everyone has the different understanding about what's true love. If you will take a pen and trying to write down people's thoughts about how they understand true love, I think you would be shocked. 

   I think people get this concept mistakenly. Example, Most people don't know the difference between lust and love. Before I confuse you, what's this word "Lust"? This is the strong sexual desire. And then what's "Love"?  Inshort, love is a great interest or pleasure on something. Therefore, if you ever loved someone because you think she can satisfy your sexual desire or you loved him because you think he can offer your needs then you're wrong if you think that's love. Big NO! That's lust.

What Is True Love?

Have you ever heard about people who committed suicide after being rejected or betrayed in love? And what about those who got mad? Do you think, they were emotionally weak, or they had nothing to deal with that's why they thought love was the only important thing. These are some answers that I have been hearing from different people.  But I think those people don't know what's love? And may be they never fallen in love. 

Do you think have you ever fallen in love? Anyway, read the following signs that shows you're really fallen in love;. 

*You Don't Know The Reason

When you love someone and sometimes you got no reason how did you get falling, this may be a true love. If someones asks you why you love Manchester United Team? What would be the answer? That's why people who don't know the meaning of love, they wonder when they see a beautiful woman getting married to a local or poor man or a disabled man. And they would ask, what did she like from that man. 

*You're Not Blind 

True love never makes you blind. When you truly love someone, you will truly see his or her weakness or strength and you will decide to choose both. If love makes you blind - you don't see any weakness of your lover that's not a true love because reading and understanding your partner is the best thing in the relationship. Example, I am in love with my girlfriend, she is beautiful but yet I can still notes her other side of weakness. And I really know her strength and weakness but I am ready to face them. If you would ask me why I love her, I think you would wonder if I will tell you one of her weakness as my reason to love her. Meaning true love is when you realize how short or tall your love is but you keep considering him or her.  And you accept that she is not as beautiful as Priyanka Chopra but you would still choose her even if Priyanka Chopra is there. 

*You Ready To Let Her/Him Go

Some people will be surprised here but that's the truth. That person you love the most, is the person you will let him go when you realize he or she got someone special and no longer interested. You would have asked why? The short and simple answer is that, people with true love feel happier when they realize that they are loved by those they love the most. And if they see no efforts or any probability of winning their heart, they decide to leave them peacefully but sometimes they would say or blame a lot and other end up writing books or they never fall in love again because at this time they don't trust any and they want to keep their hearts peaceful. 

 

*You feel The Presence of Your Lover Everywhere

  When you truly love someone you will feel his or her presence everywhere you're. This is because you're spiritual and body connected. But if you feel someone when you have sexual feelings, or needing something then that's not love but you are just there because of your self expectations. 

*You Remember Everything He/She Shared With You

When you love someone you will need to know a lot about him or her. And you get any information will directly get stored in your hand. I remember my girlfriend told me that she loved Dogo Janja's music. I never forgot this even after four years when I reminded her and she was shocked and she never knew I was still remembering that. If you're still remembering all the things she was telling you long time ago then you are in love. Example, remembering her birthday, parent's name, stories she shared or even his or favourite things.

*Thinking About Him or Her Constantly 

It's inevitable to stop thinking someone you love always. You know what? It's because you care about him or her then you would like to keep hearing what they are doing or feeling everytime. Therefore, thinking about him or her would be your way of life.  At this point, you will always dreaming or talking to yourself about your lover. Sometimes you will be grabbing your phone quickly anytime you hear a notification because you think it must be your lover trying to reach you. Imagine that feeling when you find it was not the one but other notifications.

*Planning The Future

If you're in love with someone but yet you don't know his/her future because never shared, then I don't think if this would be a true love. You will always feel good to share your future with your partner because is the one you see in your future life. Imagine, would you stop telling your future plans to that one you want to go older with? I don't think if the answer will be NO. 

*Respect And Jealous 

The level of respect and jealous to someone you love are always the same. You will feeling that your partner is the most beautiful one so there are so many people seeing her like the way yo do. Therefore, seeing your partner spending time with people of opposite gender will be leaving you stressful. 

Respect is the second thing you will be giving to someone you really love. Even if when there are some conflicts but you will find yourself trying to solve it peacefully and respectfully compared to the way you do when you're dealing with others. This is because no one wants to see his/her partner going through problems.

There are so many signs that show that you're in love and it's a true love. I know some of them may not sound essence but if all the points above have never experienced in your relationship then I have the rights to say that you're still not in love.

My words are not devine but I am pretty sure there are some truth in them because I've been writing from experience. 

True love is still there though some people don't trust in it and others never met this thing. These people have all reasons to break your faith even before meeting someone special, please don't let them decide for you what to believe. Everyone born with love inside of him but things got changed after different experiences and false inspirations. Keep protecting your heart and if you're already in true love, let me give a big Congrats and stay there since life is short and don't forget we are living in the world that think true love is illusion. If you have someone who really loves you then don't take it for granted but appreciate and let me say you're luckt