How To Win Your Ex Back

 

I know you must be passing through difficulties after breakup with your lover. You have been telling people about it, no one shows empathy, they keep telling you things that don't make sense to you.

   Don't worry, today I am just here to help you out if you really want your ex to get back to you without begging her or him back. I know others would tell you not to get back to your ex but you really need to listen to your heart because all the things are up to you and not them. Others never want to get back to their exes, no problem it's just a choice like the way you really want your ex back. 

   It's just not simple to get your ex back, but these tips I am going to tell will be helpful regardless the type of mistakes or conflicts led you to breakup. All you need is to read carefully and following them effectively and I am sure you're going to thank me later. Let's start;

Improve Yourself

Improving yourself is the greatest tip to make your ex get back to you. All you need here is to take care of yourself. Giving yourself those favors you never did to yourself before. Eat well, make exercise to make your body fit, take a lot of water, dressing properly, shaving your hair casually or any style that will make you look smart and unique. It's the time when you need to smell nicely and being clean and connecting yourself with great and respected people and going to the religious buildings and having a well organized timetable so that you're not wasting your time in the street with those wrong guys who can turn you into a regular person. Through these tips then you are going to look attractive person and everyone will notes this and get attracted to you. There some people will start tell your ex how you have been looking great and changing nowadays and she will start stalking you to see if it's true or not. You know what happens then?, your ex will be thinking what happens to your life to be that person you never was before. And that will be the first step to keep his or her eyes on you.

Be Mysterious 

Many people fail here. When they're facing breakup, they are going to tell everyone how they feel about it. And people are going to tell their exes how they've been explaining and their exes feel good to hear them sobbing. Your ex will be more happy when he or she will realize that you're going through difficulties and you really need your ex back.  Stop that and be Mysterious. Make sure your ex don't understand anything about you. Here, I mean your ex should not know your feelings, and your new relationship When your ex doesn't understand what you feel after breakup, actually he or she will be confused because your ex will be having a lot of questions if that breakup affected you or not. And then your ex will see himself or herself fool for the decision of breaking up. Most of exes feel better and enjoy the most and seeing themselves winners when they see you sobbing after breakup. So they think that what they wanted has happened. So, what if they not sure? Thinking you will be must.

Stop Stalking Your Ex

There's no way you can get your ex back if you're not a winner of that breakup. So, if you keep stalking your ex on social media, streets or anyhow this shows you are missing your ex a lot. Then stop stalking your ex try to be busy with your own businesses. If you think there's no way you can avoid from stalking your ex then try to use social media accounts that don't tag your names or use any secretive ways of stalking so that she or he will not get you stalking. You may think that your ex will forget you quickly if you stop asking or looking for him or her but that's not true. The point is that, an ex is a person who is there looking at your moves to know if he or she made a better decision to leave you or not. Then don't be the one who stalks but let your ex stalk you.

Develop Your Career 

Everyone got what to do for a living. You can be a business man, artist, employee or a student. In every sector you're belonging to make sure you develop it. Example, if you're a student, it's your time to study harder so that other students and teachers start appreciating you. This may make your ex jealous or thinking you and regretting to loose you. And finally your ex will start growing feelings on you. Don't forget, the true revenge is the success. If your ex sees you with problems since left you to will make ex feel better and thanking himself or herself for running away from you.

 Be That Person Your Ex Loved You For 

Many people will love you for a reason. Someone may love you because you're a good speaker, smart, sometimes they will love because you are a good helper. Therefore now you need to focus on what made your ex falling in love with you. Example if your ex loved you because you were smart then you need to be more smart. This will drive your ex insane and start reminding.

Have Fun 

Having fun with friends, hanging different places, going cinema and trying to make sure your ex seeing you happy without her or he. You know what, don't try to hang out with people of your opposite sex. This will make ex wish to be a part of your company when you go hanging with friends. And will make your ex realize that you can enjoy yourself without him or her.  This will break his or her ego.

Learn New Habit/Hobby 

Learning new habit will make you a new person and attractive to people. Example, you may start driving a bicycle instead of a car or bike. You may start walking to the working place or you may start a new and unique wearing styles. All these will not leave your ex normal. Trust me your ex is going to miss you and regretting loose you. Your new life will be more attractive and unique compared to the way it was when you're together and your ex will wish to join you. Imagine, seeing you driving a car with a slow music at the background. If this was not the thing you had before therefore it's going to make him or her think about you. Example, one of the man started walking with his dog when his wife ran away. This new habit made his wife attracted and she wanted to join him so that she'll be enjoying the dog company. So, what if you're going to start a new way of living that you think will make you attractive?

Get Closer To His Or Friends 

When you get closer to the friends of your ex, this will make your ex feeling jealous. But don't forget not to talk about your ex and not acting you don't care about it. All you need is to act in a way that will make those friends to feel proud of you. You can ask for help, you can help them and sometimes you may share some deep conversations with them. If your ex's friends will accept you, therefore they will be talking positively about you when you're not there. And don't forget when you're not there your ex will be there. So, do you think what happens when your ex hears friends talking about you positively? He or she will be starting chasing you back before they get you.

Those were tips that you can use to win your ex back. I know some of them may not sound good or helpful but try to consider those you think they can be helpful. Don't be shy or fear to try if you think some tips are helpful. 

Winning back your ex is sometimes very important. This can make your ex get back with a new and true love. Because at this time, your ex will have already regretted loosing you so actually your ex will be swearing not to loose you this time. 

But don't forget, when your ex shows any interest of coming back, don't be quick to accept. You need a time to welcome him or her back. Because if you're going to do it quickly this will not make any value. Let you act like you didn't change or do all those because of her/him. Let your ex believe that it was just for your life and not for attention  and never stop the tips that brought your ex back so as not be recognized easily.