Why She Rejects Me?

   I think everyone is going to agreed with me that, it's normal to find a man going crazy over a hard to get woman compared to women. Most of men are easy to get than women. All I mean here is that, it's easy to seduce a man than a woman. Some people have been telling me that, there's no any man who can refuse a woman who brings herself into his life. But things become different to women. Some women have been playing hard to get or sometimes rejecting men intentionally. And most of men are still there struggling even not knowing what would be the reasons.

   There are some reasons that make a woman to reject a man. Most men don't know the reasons and these made them to keep struggling without knowing what to do. As a man of research, today we have several reasons. Read them carefully if you're among them and then see how you can upgrade or getting knowledge about this situation;

Not Interested 

Some women find you not interested to them that's why they're rejecting you. Example, may be you're not her type. Imagine, if she wants a man who's tall and black but you're not having all these features. Do you think you're going to win her? Yes, you can but it will not be easy. The important thing here, women never want you to run away, they want you to stay on their DM so that they will be enjoying your attention. That's why instead of saying, I don't feel you she would say, I want you to be my friend first because I want to know you better. And if you're agree with her, totally you'll find yourself one of her friend zoned men and getting a lot of fake promises and finally you fall on your nose.

She's going Difficulties 

It's true that when people are going through difficulties,they may not pay attention to anyone but on their own thoughts. Since women are very emotional creatures, therefore when they're on their problems they tend to reject anyone who comes in front except those they care too much. She may reject you because she is passing through problems currently. Examples, she has been betrayed few days ago, she's failed her exams, may be she needs a time to recover. So when you come to her at this time, you may not sound any in her ears. Your words must be passing through her ears like the way river moves. And once you know her difficulties you may ask to help out instead of introducing your feelings first.

Testing You 

Some women need a serious relationship. These women will try to give time before giving their hearts to someone. Example, she may fall in love with but yet she fear betrayal in future or she's not sure if you're serious with her.  Then she may give some disappointed acts to test your level of patience and love to her.  She may not answer your calls, break promises, late reply or sometimes acting like she's not interested to what you are doing for her. But finally when she realizes you're serious, she is going to love you badly and trust she will one day tell you the meaning of all acts she was doing before.

Playing Hard To Get

This happen when a woman thinks she's beautiful enough and not cheap. What she does here is to play hard to get. Because she thinks she's beautiful then she must not be cheap. Now she'll start treating you unfair. Getting her time will be the difficult thing, she may give you a lot rules that show that you're not going to win her. Examples, she may arrange for you the days of calling, texting her and when you call she's not going to answer and don't forget getting her number was a big deal. Actually, these type of women are always get dumped, because as she play hard to get but there's someone out there enjoying her freely and  no future and she accepts you after you have already tired of her acts and changed your thoughts, you know what happens? You will not going to appreciate her as before.

Her Friend's Influence 

Sometimes before seducing a woman make sure her friends are okay with you. Her friends have some impacts in your relationship with her. I remember one day, I saw a group of young girls sitting together discussing their boyfriends. You know what they're talking? Just describing and letting their friends to give comments. If you're not a type of a man her friends prefer then they may advice her to let you down. 

She Might Be Having Another Man

She may be having another man but she doesn't tell you directly.  If she's in a serious relationship with a her man, the don't expect to win her. It's better to make a research if she's in a relationship or not. Because this may be one of the reason that she never told you or you really know but you keep struggling.

She's Upset 

Some people are no longer trusting in love anymore. May be they have been betrayed and heart broken. So, she doesn't need someone or what she needs is just one night stand but you need a permanent relationship with her. She may not tell you that she doesn't trust in love but she may end up rejecting you. 

She Might Be Busy 

She might be busy with her studies, works or projects and she doesn't want to mix up things. Don't forget some people are really dream chasers. May be she's in competitions, she is looking for a job so she's been busy with online applications and interviews or her business are making her serious. Even parents keep her busy with a lot of tasks so that she doesn't get time for you.

She Might Be Shy

Some people are fighting with their communication difficulties. They don't feel okay to open communications or explaing their feelings. If she belongs into these types of people my friend you're not going to understand her. It's true that some women feel shy to explain how they feel or feel shy to respond what they hold. So, the best thing she thinks she'll be doing is just escaping you or leaving you silently. 

Generally, being rejected is just a common thing in life though it tests differently according to how you are receiving and digesting it. It's better to cool down and finding the best solutions for being rejected. Some people take rejection seriously to the extent of commiting suicide, killing people, using drugs and alcohol, feeling shame and invaluable. When you're rejected, you need to calm down and sometimes it's not even important searching for the reasons why she rejects you because rejection is about her and not you. Your only response is to accept it. And don't forget that you're not the first to face rejection. Even me I have met a lot rejections from women and I agree that rejection pains especially when you're rejected by someone you really love from your inner part of the soul. 

In my next topic I will talk about how to handle rejections. Meaning, I will be explaining what to do when you feel rejected. I hope it will be helpful and meaningful. Remember I will be talking from experiences and not blue sky. I have rejected by a lot of people and I will use my experience and I will try sharing with people so that to expand experience.